Be Silent or Encouraging, Please Don't Bring Me Down.

There isn't much to say about this. It is so simple. Live by it. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. Why discourage when you can encourage? Giving someone hope and confidence makes you feel good. When you make others feel good about themselves, you feel good about yourself. Its a selfish act of kindness. And if you simply aren't nice enough to bring someone up, just keep your mouth shut.